Valentine’s Day and New Years Eve are similar holidays— they are both for amateurs.
The pros are doing this stuff year-round.
I am not saying we should blow them off, because they are great and serve a wonderful purpose, like New Year’s lets people who are not celebrities get out and have a big night. Hopefully one that does not involve driving.
Valentine’s Day helps those of us who are not adept at romantic things, like being romantic, some help. I need that.
My guess is most guys do. So we consulted some women to make it downright easy for us guys to pull off a romantic weekend.
Ladies! I am giving you a hint. If you see something, here or anywhere, that you like, print it out and hand it to your man. I know that seems too obvious, but we need it sometimes.
Guys, if your wife hands you, or even mentions, something like, “Oh, look, a romantic weekend at a cabin with massage and hot tub and….”, you get over your fear of massage. Take one for the team.
So if you are lucky enough to feel your spidey senses tingling, you pay attention. She is trying to help; act.